Thursday, July 26, 2007

Beauty vs Cute

Most people impressions when they 1st saw me is You're so cute(which according to my "fren": cute = ugly but adorable). SO whenever ppl call me that i will always say thanks with a smile..Y? because it is true..I rather be ugly but adorable rather than pretty but self-centred =P Its not that I am stereotyping all pretty gals are like that but its based on majority and my life experience hehe..I know 1st hand cause i been living with 2 pretty gals in the whole duration of my life..Its a miracle that I do not have self esteem issues...

One thing about pretty gals is that they expect everyone to cater for them and to solve their problems for them just by flashing their smiles..I guess that this is just one of the side effects of being pretty I guess..As I have said earlier, this is based on living in the shadows of 2 pretty sisters:)

So what is the side effects of being cute? Well you tend to care too much about other people that you tend to forget to care about your own self..This personality trait was observed by non other than my "fren". He always told me why do you care about others so much..Just let them be..they are all adult, they can solve their own problem..But the problem is if someone come to me with a problem, I always try to think up ways to solve the problem that sometimes I stress myself up..hehe..I just can't help it..

But guys dun worry you can just come up to me with your probs, i love hearing ppl problem and solving it..Mayb i just like solving problem but at the end of the day, i realise that some problems are really out of my league and all I can offer is a listening ear...which is good enough I hope :)